Friday, July 20, 2018

July 19, 2018


Hello to anyone who might still be connected automatically to my blog. Grandson Joey Hover is printing the blog in its entirety, putting the pages in plastic sleeves, then binders. I have wanted to have it in this form for some time. I will be able to add antidotes, pictures, some of Ron's daily cards, hospital print-outs, etc., if I find them meaningful to the story. It has made me weepy at times to relive those entries. Another adjustment has been to have a schedule that is not framed around taking Allison and Jack to school. The sports calendar also ended at the conclusion of the school year. As I told the kids, it was the first time that I ever felt really sad on the last day of school!
I had planned to spend extended time this summer at Wall Lake at my sister's, but the construction of my front porch has been agonizingly slow, and I want to be here in BG when they work. I initiated the project in March; then a Mallard duck made her nest right in the middle of where the porch would be. Although this story did not have a happy ending because something ate the eggs, it put me off the production calendar for a few weeks. The weather has not been cooperative, and now I am waiting for the concrete to be poured.
I have a few groups that I have lunch with on a regular basis. Enjoyable! I'm also volunteering as a worker in Bowling Green's Simpson Garden Park. I think organizing my belongings will be a lifelong process. A bus tour to Frankenmuth, Michigan was a part of this week's activities. Ron and I had visited there twice during our early retirement...once in the winter and once in the summer. Ron would plan secret overnight trips for us; he knew that I would love the German atmosphere and Christmas at Bronners. So my memories are a mix of comfort and sadness.
I have been walking regularly in my neighborhood and have enjoyed getting to know my neighbors better. Today I also played bridge with friends; it is a stretch to try to remember bridge strategies after 40+ years of not playing. Ha! I am traveling to Wall Lake this weekend (my sister's); there is an extended family breakfast on Sunday morning. I will also see my brother, Gary, and Vicki.
I'm okay.
Love, Jan